Always begin the introduction using the most honored person's name first.
Here are the rules which clarify who is the most honored person:
1) Introduce the younger person to the older person (honored).
2) Introduce a male to a female (honored).
3) Introduce the less-distinguished person to the most distinguished person (honored).
4) Give first and last names if you can.
Turn first toward the person in the "honored" position. Address this person as "Grandmother, Reverend,
Brother Smith, Mr. or Mrs. Jones."
Example: Say, "Grandmother, this is my friend from school, Laura Andrews." Always say the last name.
Turn to Laura and say, "Laura, this is my Grandmother, Mrs. Jenson."
Because your grandmother's name may be different from yours, always use the lat name when
introducing people. Also, Laura would feel uncomfortable calling your grandmother, "Grandmother or
Grandma."
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For over twenty years June Moore has taught and written about good manners in our society. She has
trained hundreds of individuals in social and business etiquette. With a BA degree from Ouachita
Baptist University and post-graduate credits from the University of Oklahoma along with years of
experience teaching public school and Bible studies, June is eminently qualified to teach and write in
the field of good manners.
She has sold 70,000 manners books with B&H which include You Can Raise a Well-Mannered Child;
The Etiquette Advantage; Manners Made Easy; Manners Made Easy for Teens; and Manners Made
Easy for the Family.
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From Manners Made Easy by June Hines Moore. © 2001 B& H Publishing Group. All rights reserved.