Simple Ideas for Reducing Stress
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Editor's Note (CBMC International): The following has been adapted from an unknown source. In the
business and professional world, stress is a reality that we all must live with. Deadlines, unmet goals,
unexpected setbacks, computer problems, financial challenges, interpersonal conflicts and intense
competition are just some of the factors that contribute to our daily stress. We all cope with stress
differently, but here are some worthwhile suggestions you might want to consider.
Someone has wisely said, "Never borrow from the future. If you worry about what may
happen tomorrow and it doesn't happen, you have worried in vain. Even if it does happen,
you have to worry twice. Why waste your worrying until you need it?" To reduce worry
and reduce stress, try the following:
1. Pray. Acknowledge your need for wisdom and guidance in your daily responsibilities.
2. Go to bed on time. When we are well-rested, our capacity for handling stress is greater.
3. Get up on time so you can start the day unrushed. There is such a thing as too much rest!
4. Be willing to say no. Decline projects that you cannot give adequate time and attention.
5. Delegate tasks to capable others. Just because a job needs to be done, it does not mean you are
the one who must do it. Find the best person for the job.
6. Simplify your life. Too many things demanding attention inevitably cause stress.
7. Less is more. Although one is often not enough, two are often too many.
8. Allow sufficient time for doing things and getting to places. Overscheduling is another major
stress producer. You can't be in two places at one time.
9. Pace yourself. Spread out big changes and challenging projects over time; do not take on too many
difficult things at one time.
10. Take one day at a time. Do today's work today; let tomorrow's work wait until tomorrow.
11. Distinguish worries from concerns. If a situation is a concern, find out what God would have you
do and release the anxiety. If you can't do anything about the situation, forget it.
12. Live within your budget. Do not spend money that you do not have or buy things you cannot afford.
13. Have replacements. Keep a duplicate car key in your wallet, a spare house key buried in the
garden, and extras of other items you frequently need.
14. Choose your words carefully. This single piece of advice can prevent an enormous amount of
trouble.
15. Have fun. Do something every day for the child in you.
16. Nourish yourself spiritually. Have a Bible readily available to read while waiting in line, or for a
meeting.
17. Eat properly. Following a healthy diet will help keep you physically fit and provide needed energy.
18. Get organized. Find a proper place for everything so you will not have to hunt when you need them.
19. Listen to audio tapes or CD's while driving. Use time in your car productively to improve your
quality of life.
20. Write down thoughts and inspirations. If you have a good idea, write it down. If you hear some
helpful thoughts, record them so you will not forget them.
21. Find time to be alone. It is good having people around, but time alone enables us to recharge.
22. Talk to God frequently. Try to deal with small problems by praying about them. You do not have to
wait for a specified time and place to pray.
23. Make friends with people that share your values. We all need encouragement in living up to the
truths we hold dear in our lives.
24. Keep favorite Bible verses readily available. Having cherished Scripture passages written down
on a piece of paper or a card can serve as a helpful reminder in stressful times.
25. Laugh. Everyday life can be disheartening. Take time to laugh. Maximize light-hearted moments.
26. Have a personal exercise routine. Physical exertion is an excellent stress reducer.
27. Develop a forgiving attitude. Bitterness is poisonous. Remember, most people are doing the best
they can.
28. Be kind to unkind people. They probably need kindness the most.
29. Talk less; listen more. Be receptive to what others have to say; you might learn something useful.
30. Remind yourself that you are not the general manager of the universe. Don't try to do God's
job!
31. Remember your greatest ally. "If God is for us, who can be against us?" (Romans 8:31)
Reflection/Discussion Questions
1. What are the greatest causes of stress and worry in your life today?
2. What steps, if any, do you typically take in seeking to reduce stress in your life? How effective have
these been for you?
3. Which of the suggestions for reducing stress in this "Monday Manna" are most helpful to you? Did you
see some ideas that you have not considered before? If so, which ones?
4. Does it help you to know that God is in control of all of your circumstances, and that He has your best
interests at heart? Explain your answer.
NOTE: If you have a Bible and would like to consider other passages that relate to this topic, look up
the following verses: Psalm 94:16-19, 139:1-6,23-24; Jeremiah 29:11-13; Matthew 6:25-34;
Philippians 4:6-7
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This article appeared in the March 17, 2008, issue of "Monday Mana." Used with permission of CBMC International.
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